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“And once I dealt with the root cause, the symptom faded away.“ This is reality and our confused children are being herded into a trans-ideology corral to slaughter their identity by therapists who are not looking for the root causes. Most likely their is some pain from their past and unresolved issues of loneliness or confusion due to spectrum issues which has nothing to do with gender! I remember being depressed as a child and teenager, feeling unloved, feeling inadequate and awkward. It took years of adult therapy to find my root causes - none of which was my fault (early sexual trauma, being bullied, and an angry alcoholic father and then my parents divorce). We all carry baggage from our childhood and some of us carry it around for years, others open the baggage and throw away what doesn't fit us any more. I am in my mid-sixties and I survived because I had therapists who listened, guided me and helped me face and feel my pain. In other words helped me get to the root cause. The injustice that is being done to our children today is horrific - putting a band-aide on their problems of feeling inadequate or confused or awkward and blaming it on being born in the wrong body is beyond comprehension.

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Thanks for sharing your story with a 1963 mom who's 2007 daughter is struggling...I believe we've found her a therapist who is looking at the root causes. Hoping we see some light soon.

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I had been wondering about a connection I noticed between self consciousness and blaming others on the one hand and gender dysphoria on the other. When you spoke of externalisation it made better sense.

I was born same time as you and I sought psychotherapy in the eighties. And i also found myself thinking that had I been born later, and told my psychologist what I did tell him, I probably would have embarked on an absurdly unnecessary path to physical transition.

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Thank you for sharing your story. You are absolutely right that if you were born in 1993, your chances of meeting a therapist willing to help you solve your real problems instead of sending you directly to gender clinics would be zero. These days trans cult has gained so much political and financial power it's impossible to find a medical professional for whom the argument "first, do no harm" overpowers the principle "first, make more money." Fortunately, it looks like, finally, some lawyers have started to recognize that most GD patients are victims of social contagion. Making just a few gender therapists accountable for misdiagnosing would lead to the beginning of the end of the industry that profits by irreversibly mutilating the bodies of emotionally premature children and emotionally vulnerable adults.

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Thank you for this testimony.

Why don't the so-called "experts" listen to your experience?

Why are the $$urgeons, endocrinologists and above all the psycho-therapists captured and deluded?

Our society is perpetrating massive harms on the bodies of our youth. My own son included among them. How long can this collective delusion persist?

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Well done. An open, honest and clear account of your struggles. Thank goodness you had a therapist who specialised in childhood trauma and was able to help you overcome your feelings of being alienated from reality. What you have identified is so true, the feelings associated with Gender Dysphoria that you obviously went through, mask the underlying problems that contributed to this problem in the first place.

Bless you man and continue to embrace your real gift of manhood.

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That was so helpful and encouraging. Thank you!

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Thank you, this is so insightful and helps me to understand.

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Thank you for sharing this insight that all those caught in the web of Satan's lies need to hear, so that, like you, they can be free from the path that leads to death and destruction.

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Thank you fir sharing!

And thank God you had a therapist who looked deeper for the cause.

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Thank you for sharing this. I see my daughter's truth in so much of what you said. Unfortunately most of the world sees her with her lenses. So she is lost to me for now. But so good to hear from people who are able to reflect. I only hope her cognitive capacity does not get destroyed by these treatments and all the validation.

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Thank you

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Thank you. - LM

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Thank you so much for sharing. My son made the decision to transition shortly after starting college. I later found out that it was the college that was providing him with the hormones. Unfortunately, there was not much we could do as he was eighteen and considered an adult. We need therapists who are willing ask the tough questions! I tried finding a therapist that wouldn't immediately affirm but I couldn't find even one. It's so very sad to see how many lives are being destroyed due to this gender ideology. I pray that the medical community start telling the truth about what is being done to our children and adolescents. This is criminal! Thanks again and may God bless you!!!

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Thanks for sharing your story.

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"Conversion Therapy that the pro-trans movement wants to ban" is similar to the ban against all therapy about homosexualism.

They have banned the ability of individuals to receive counseling or therapy to avoid unwanted feelings of same-sex attraction, no matter how much the individual wants it!

This is for self-protection of the LGBT Agenda! "We have you in our spider web and we are keeping you there!"

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